It is, absolutely inappropriate to tell a thin person “you could stand to gain a few pounds”.
You would never say that to someone in the reverse position. Unless I am dressed inappropriately (for, say, my job), please do not comment to me. Unless its a compliment. Those are always welcomed.
Yes! Thank you. I’ve been slender my entire life - I have an extremely fast metabolism, I’m very active, and I eat small meals throughout the day. And yet so many people think it’s okay to tell me I’m too skinny and I need to gain weight. Personally I think commenting on weight in general is crossing a line. How is it that saying “you’re so skinny!” is okay when saying “you’re so fat!” is completely unacceptable?
I hear that comment at least 2 times...week and it always comes from COMPLETE STRANGERS!!!...
I completely agree. I’ve recently taken on the small plate diet: essentially, I just eat less than most people...
get this ALL the time.
Yep. I hear all the time ”You need...cheeseburger” I just want
one hand, yeah, but on the other hand — knowing people who’ve had eating disorders — I’m
I have curves like whoa and I love them. Sure i could stand to be thinner and wear a dress size in the single digits,...
offensive. …just...Boo freaking hoo. Sorry girls, you all seem wonderful, but I have no...
Yes! Thank you. I’ve been slender my entire life - I have an extremely fast metabolism, I’m very active, and I eat small...
i think the most offensive...me is when my more well-endowed or curvy friends remark
also hate it when this happens. But then again, I also hate gaining